If you could do it all over again, would you?

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  1. markw

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    This is a relationship question...


    If you were to meet your S/O today, do you think you two would be attracted to each other? Do you think you'd date?
     
  2. hank

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    no ebonics no care
     
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    single so I cant give an answer
     
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  5. markw

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    I already got bored of it :lol:
     
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    You don't count. I'm talking 3+ year relationships :lol:
     
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    that wasn't specified in the original post, marky!
     
  13. markw

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    I know :happysad: I've been sucking at posting lately
     
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    ya serioiusly!! why hate the honeymooners!! :lol:
     
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    :lol: Because you're still too early into it to show your true colours :kekeke:
     
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    Seriously. What the hell.

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    what is with this S/O crap all of a sudden?
     
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    hellz yeah.

    If time has taught me a few things, It's that I can live with this person, she's as independent as I am. she's got a head on her shoulders, her character never changed even after 5 years, and the hotness came with age.
     
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    Truly spoken like people who's S/O's are RC users... :lol:










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    And, my answer is yes.
     
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    I've been single over a year now, but I'll answer this from the standpoint of my last serious (3 year) relationship. I often wonder if, knowing what I know now, I would have still dated her. It was a horrible, unhealthy, fucked up relationship but, despite all of that, it really made me an all around better person in the end. It's easy to say that it was a waste of time or that I missed out on so many other opportunities, but the point of life it to learn from your mistakes grow over time. Anyone who says they regret their current or past relationships is simply not looking at the big picture IMO.
     
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    /\ good post.


    I've got too much to add to this subject.. but it's probably better if I just keep it to myself... heh
     
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    absolutely <3
     
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    Although, after re-reading the original post, it almost seems if you're asking about physical attraction. ie. S/O's who "let themselves go" after becoming comfortable in a long term relationship. In this case, I often wonder the same thing about some of my buddies and their long term girlfriends :lol:
     
  28. markw

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    Nope, attacted in other ways, do you think you'd "click"


    That kinda deal. I know I've changed a LOT in the 8 years I've been with the woman... and I know she has too. If we were to meet today, never have met eachother before... I'm not too sure we'd click.
     
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    But, at the same time, you yourself mentioned "not showing your true colours" until later on in the relationship. Who's to say that if you first met today, that she (or you for that matter) wouldn't put up the same "front" as 8 years ago? Then there's always the unknown variable of what may or may not have happened in the previous years (to effect your personality, etc) had you not met. This is one of thsoe questions without an answer, me thinks :lol:
     
  30. markw

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    That's one thing we're both alike with, no fakeness.. lol


    We've been the exact same from day one, no "front". I mentioned it because every other girl I've been with started out very different.. same goes for friends s/o's
     
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    8 years?!?!? Holy crap.. I didn't know you were pre-married!! :lol:
     
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    I guess "front" was the wrong word... I mean, everyone goes through the "honeymoon" stage of a relationship (see: Goodie and Janet :kekeke:) where things are all butterflies and rainbows. After being together for 8 years youv'e seen all sides of a person. The good, bad, ugly, beautiful, etc. This can change how you act around each other (even if it's unintentional). I find it hard to believe that you'd act the exact same around her if you met her for the first time today...
     
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    I can't speak for the 3+ crowd, but I can for the 2+, and I totally would. I wouldn't change a thing.... we had our ups and downs and everything finally is perfect.
     
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    He most likely gave you the stomach flu..:kekeke:
     

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